tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2404014213445679032024-02-21T01:05:10.958-07:00To Make A ChoiceMy journey to become a non-directed living kidney donor and everything that came after donating. It's easier & safer than you might think. With over 3000 Canadians waiting for a kidney, increasing awareness of organ donation is critical.Lauren Hhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09608128317570165038noreply@blogger.comBlogger182125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-240401421344567903.post-15974731599502429252013-05-01T16:41:00.000-06:002013-05-01T16:48:12.419-06:00Hello My Name is Lauren and I Have One Kidney<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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When you donate a kidney, the medical folks tell you that going forward, you'll need to tell and remind ALL health care professionals (sometimes repeatedly) that you only have one kidney. This also applies to lab techs, massage therapists, dentists etc. This is so they avoid giving you drugs or treatments that can harm the remaining one. Also, in the event of an abdominal trauma, they will know upfront that there isn't a back up kidney in there.<br />
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In the beginning (post-donation) I was pretty good at communicating this. But I was met with one of two reactions...either "Who cares - that shouldn't impact this medical treatment/issue" as though I shouldn't have brought it up or the onslaught of a thousand questions like "Who got it?", " When did you do it?" ,"You gave it to a stranger?". That kind of thing. On one occasion, when I brought it up halfway through an ER visit because I knew they wanted to do a CT Scan which uses a contrast dye that can impact the kidneys, the resident seemed really put out by the news. "Well where did it go?" she had asked in exasperation. "Now I have to check with my attending!".<br />
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Overtime I have become more reluctant to bring it up unless I'm sure it has relevance to the task at hand. I recently had a conversation with some of my fellow boot camp exercise participants about how long we had been attending the program. I had started right before the surgery, about two months and had returned about five weeks after surgery. One of the bootcampers remarked that she remembered how I hadn't told any of the trainers I donated a kidney. She wondered why. I had mentioned that I had had surgery (I think I had mentioned abdominal to at least one of them) but she was right - I hadn't really wanted to mention it.<br />
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I think quiet frankly I was, and still am, hesitant to mention it sometimes because I don't feel like talking about it or answering the questions I inevitably get. Don't get me wrong, in the right venue I welcome the opportunity to talk about it and to raise awareness about living donation. But other times I flat out don't want to bring it up.<br />
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Today I had an ultrasound of the lower abdomen scheduled to check out my girly regions (I have bad time of the months - too much information?). I didn't think I needed to mention the kidney as they are a fair distance away from what is being looked at in the body I was certain if I mentioned it I'd be told they don't need to know that, and they don't care. So I didn't say anything.<br />
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The exam started and she examined the lower abdomen as expected...the she went higher up on the right side, but not quite kidney height. Then she went to the left side. Examined for a bit and made me roll over. She hadn't done that on the other side. After several minutes, she asked, in a rather panicked tone, if I had ever had surgery. I told her about the kidney. She let out the biggest sigh I have ever heard. She had been looking for it and couldn't find it. Oooops. She seemed so... overwhelmed, I felt bad. She told me she had asked me to roll over because sometimes kidneys migrate up and down the abdominal cavity. I told her no, it migrated right out of the body.<br />
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She didn't really appreciate my joke. I guess I need to rethink my kidney disclosure policy.Lauren Hhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09608128317570165038noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-240401421344567903.post-73867061329385108882013-03-24T17:30:00.000-06:002013-03-24T18:43:40.391-06:00David<table cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="float: left; margin-right: 1em; text-align: left;"><tbody>
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Back at the start of the summer, I attended a fundraiser for
the <a href="http://www.organ-donation-works.org/english/events/canadian-transplant-games/" target="_blank">Canadian Transplant Games</a>. I’m pretty shy at social events and I hardly
know anyone there (and those I did know were really busy organizing the event).
I did my usual Lauren trick of finding a good people watching spot and leaned
against a wall, nursing a beer. I noticed one guy almost right away. It was his
hat. It was a simple ball cap, but the front had October 20, 2008 on it, and
something about lungs. October 20 is my birthday, hence why the date stood out
for me (although the year was slightly off
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Perhaps he saw me reading his hat or thought I looked like I
needed someone to talk to so he came over. His name was David and he had indeed
received a double lung transplant, on my birthday, in 2008. He was around my
age, maybe a bit older (I've lost the ability to guess these things). He told me about his life before he got sick,
what caused him to need a transplant (<a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pulmonary_fibrosis" target="_blank">pulmonary fibrosis</a> -I had to Google it as I had never heard
of it) and what life was like since his transplant. He was a little gruff and
seemed a little grumpy (and others later told warned me he could be negative at
times or at least that had been their experience. But I never saw that – when I spoke to him, he was always an optimist.
He had been through a lot over the past number of years and he was grateful for
his lungs and that fact that he had more time with his wife and his young son.
A lot had changed for him (he had once had his own business for example) and
although he was living a very different life, he was quietly and profoundly
thrilled to have the second chance.<o:p></o:p></div>
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Over the course of the Canadian Transplant Games I got to
know him better. I learned that yes, he could be a bit gruff, but he was also good
natured, funny and sympathetic. He loved his family so deeply and talked about
his son whenever he had the chance. We connected on social media - first Facebook and then I saw him learn and
embrace Twitter, using it to promote organ donation. It’s funny how you really
can get to know someone over social media, even if you have only met them in
person once or twice. Many of us involved in the Transplant Games have formed
great friendships after the games using these channels, I count David as one of mine. David even went as far
as sponsoring me in the Kidney March last year to show his support which meant
a lot to me.<o:p></o:p></div>
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David had <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hip_replacement" target="_blank">hip replacement</a> surgery about six weeks ago. A negative side effects of anti-rejection medication is a condition called avascular necrosis, which seriously diminishes blood supply to the hips. While otherwise healthy, some transplant patients end up needing surgery to fix this and similar issues (I am not sure if this is why he needed a hip but I do know it is common). David's surgery, by all accounts, went really well, but somewhere in the recovery
process days later, something went wrong with one of the after treatments. He fought
hard for weeks to stay with his family but in the end he lost the fight. David
died Thursday.<br />
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I’m sad. I’m sad for David because he already had struggled
so much and had come out the other end okay, only to be broadsided by something
else. This wasn't an infection or the lungs rejecting…from what I was told it
was a pretty rare complication unrelated to being a transplant recipient. I am
sad for his wife and his mother and everyone else in his life. I’m especially sad for his son. Every kid needs their dad and he’s not going to have his for
the better part of his childhood. <o:p></o:p></div>
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I’m sad for all the transplant friends he made too. I know
for a lot of recipients, they are all too aware of how fragile life is and how
quickly things can change. David’s death
probably hit closer to home for them than most. I hate seeing some of
our mutual transplant friends go through that fear and worry that something
might happen to them. Even though David’s situation wasn't necessarily directly
linked to having a transplant, I can see where it would be making other recipients look over their shoulders a
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It doesn't seem right that this happened. I’m going through
pictures taken at the games and it just doesn't make sense to me. I fully
expected to see him at other events (link the upcoming <a href="http://www.transplanttrot.ca/calgary/" target="_blank">Transplant Trot</a>) and that he’d be back posting on Facebook
soon. I didn't know him well, but I knew him well enough to know that he and
his family deserved more time together.<o:p></o:p><br />
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Lauren Hhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09608128317570165038noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-240401421344567903.post-60440474509010535052013-03-17T11:05:00.001-06:002013-03-17T12:06:18.417-06:00Getting the Word Out<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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Through my donation and the social media world, I've met a lot of great people involved in the transplant world. One of those people, whom I've mentioned before, is <a href="http://socialmediastolemykidney.wordpress.com/" target="_blank">Amy</a>. She donated her kidney to a family member of someone she didn't know too well after she saw a <a href="http://www.today.com/id/43108612/ns/today-today_news/t/she-found-kidney-ailing-mom-social-media/" target="_blank">tweet about "Tiny Mom" needing help</a>.<br />
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There seems to be a commonality among many donors (including Amy and myself) that donating was the first step on a much larger path for them.In choosing to donate an organ to someone in need, they found their calling in promoting organ donation. I am not sure that promoting is really the right word because it's more than that. Sure, we'd love to see more donors (where it makes medical sense) but it's also about supporting other donors as well, past, present and future. It's about making the systems donors navigate better. It's about transparency in the process. It's about making the journey the same for donors (same information, same treatment, same level of safety) whether you donate in Arizona or Alberta. It's about finding a way so that all the great things some programs are doing are shared and implemented in all the other programs at least across North America (I'd love to take on the world but let's be realistic).<br />
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Amy is taking a big, giant leap towards this by making a <a href="http://www.indiegogo.com/projects/social-media-stole-my-kidney" target="_blank">documentary</a> about all of the things above and more. Here are her goals:<br />
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1) To educate the public on the huge but addressable problem of chronic kidney disease and kidney failure and the option of transplantation and living kidney donation<br />
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2) To create a film documenting real stories of living kidney donors across the nation<br />
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3) To highlight the safety of kidney donation<br />
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4) To highlight the additive potential of public awareness and public action<br />
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5) To continue to use Social Media to reach across distance to achieve success<br />
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6) To share personal and revolutionary stories of changing attitudes<br />
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7) To reveal the unlikely players in a very apropo movement<br />
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I am very excited and honoured to be a part of her project (the lone Canadian!). She'll be filming later this spring in a whirlwind tour of North America. Never in a million years did I ever think my choice to donate would have brought me here. It's exciting because I feel like I really can make a difference, even though I may never see what that difference actually is. I'm also excited because the more I hear other people's stories, the more I appreciate that despite the process issues beyond their control, my doctors and donor coordinator at Foothills are running a pretty fantastic program. They are doing <a href="http://tomakeachoice.blogspot.ca/2011/07/top-5-things-they-did-right.html" target="_blank">a lot of things right</a> and actually as a country, Canada is leading the way in best practices in a lot of ways. For me, this will hopefully be an opportunity to talk about how we do things here, from my perspective.</div>
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To learn more about the documentary, check out the link <a href="http://www.indiegogo.com/projects/social-media-stole-my-kidney" target="_blank">here</a>. A little fundraising help is needed too, for expenses, if you are so inclined. Either way though, follow along in the journey on the <a href="http://socialmediastolemykidney.wordpress.com/2013/03/07/our-indiegogo-campaign-is-live/" target="_blank">website</a> or on <a href="https://www.facebook.com/SocialMediaStoleMyKidney" target="_blank">Facebook</a> and be sure check out the documentary when its done.</div>
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Lauren Hhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09608128317570165038noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-240401421344567903.post-61887443502871943222012-12-31T12:11:00.000-07:002013-03-17T10:19:46.294-06:00Dear LeftieDear Leftie;<br />
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I know I've been a bit behind in blogging. Life does that sometimes. I promise, in 2013, I will get better at being more consistent.<br />
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How are you doing? I hope you are settled in your new home and thriving. Have you made friends with your neighbours? Perhaps they weren't too sure about you at first, but overtime I bet they have started to like the fact that you help everyone feel better. Keep up the good work for a long time, okay?<br />
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Righty and I are doing fine. My blood pressure is great and despite the little issue with <a href="http://tomakeachoice.blogspot.ca/2012/06/iron-woman-i-am-not.html" target="_blank">iron</a> earlier in the year, we both are healthy and happy. It's really been a heck of a year - a lot has happened and for most of it, you really should get some if not all, of the credit.<br />
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I guess the biggest news of the year was that in November, I was selected as one of <a href="http://www.avenuecalgary.com/top-40-under-40/lauren-herschel" target="_blank">Avenue Magazines Top 40 under 40</a>. Crazy, wonderful and humbling. What has been <b>so</b> great about this honour is that it has opened up more people's hearts and minds to organ donation, living or otherwise, and it has people asking questions. Talking about it. Never in a million years did I think our choice would be so interesting or inspiring to other people - it was a private decision we made and while I understand it was a gift for the person who got you, I didn't know how much of a gift it would be to myself and others.<br />
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I never realized how many amazing people I've meet after choosing to be a living donor - not just other donors, organ recipients and their families, who are quite possibly the strongest people I've ever met. I volunteered this year at the <a href="http://www.organ-donation-works.org/english/events/canadian-transplant-games/" target="_blank">Canadian Transplant Games</a>. I met kids and adults of all ages who had received the gift of life, many of them from deceased donors but several of them from living donors as well. I met donor families who in what probably was the darkest time in their life, made a choice to save someone else (or several someone-elses). I can't articulate how powerful it was to see life being appreciated and celebrated so intensely. Amazing.<br />
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I think the highlight of the games for me was near the very end. After a day in the sun taking pictures of the track and field event, I was scurrying to my car to get home and ready for the closing gala. I was intercepted on the way by one of the athletes, <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jpoL1QmZf3w" target="_blank">Scott</a>. He had a heart transplant at age 28. He handed me one of the gold medals he had earned that day. "<a href="https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=10151947666830384&set=a.227962210383.281503.799145383&type=1&theater" target="_blank">This is for all you did and all that you do</a>". Oh. My. God. It still chokes me up.<br />
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Not sure if you heard, Leftie, but you were in the news a bit this year. <a href="http://metronews.ca/news/calgary/264219/calgary-donor-celebrates-kidneyversary-without-lefty/" target="_blank">Metro</a>, <a href="http://www2.canada.com/calgaryherald/news/story.html?id=11d1ad31-f632-4729-8a6e-cceb4f49e67d" target="_blank">Calgary Herald</a>, <a href="http://www.openfile.ca/calgary/calgary/text/collective-aims-educate-encourage-organ-transplants" target="_blank">Open File</a>, Avenue Magazine (above and beyond the Top 40 stuff). I remember talking to a reporter last year who had been around for most of my journey. He had told me after the fact that when there had been the initial <a href="http://tomakeachoice.blogspot.ca/2011/01/forced-choice.html" target="_blank">controversy about my blogging</a>, a communications representative from Alberta Health had told him that they thought I might only be wanting to donate you for media attention. Hearing that made me so mad - and hurt. Anyone who knows me well knows that couldn't be further from the truth and even now, despite there being more media attention (all unsolicited, thank you very much, critics) I still am largely uncomfortable being interviewed. I am still shy and all of these opportunities have been slightly outside my comfort zone. But it has helped people understand the need for more organ donors so the discomfort has been worth it. You and I were also <a href="http://www.kidney.ca/page.aspx?pid=2391" target="_blank">The Kidney Foundation of Canada's Stories</a> of Hope winner for the Prairies.<br />
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Rightie and I are excited for 2013, to see what it brings. One of my online friends <a href="https://twitter.com/TheFabulousOne" target="_blank">Amy</a>, who is also a donor, is doing a documentary (<a href="http://socialmediastolemykidney.wordpress.com/" target="_blank">Social Media Stole My Kidney</a>) about living donors. She is <a href="https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=185404081602137&set=a.134639593345253.30897.134438903365322&type=1&theater" target="_blank">driving across the US</a> to interview a hand full of people about their experiences in the hopes of raising the profile on living donation. She's even detouring into Canada to talk with us! I am excited to be a part of this project, because I really think it can make a difference, especially with Amy's determination and dedication behind it. Yay donors! (And of course, Yay Lefties!).<br />
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On that note, Leftie, I will leave you with a final thought. I haven't told anyone this until now. This year brought me something else. Something really special. Closure. I am more okay with losing <a href="http://tomakeachoice.blogspot.ca/2012/02/for-dad.html" target="_blank">Dad</a> than I ever have been in 16 years. While I wasn't wallowing in grief still or anything, I still really missed him. I knew I didn't really have that elusive thing called closure. I was close but not quite there. But I feel like somehow giving you up and everything that has come with that has helped. I am at peace with it. It is funny how you don't really know you aren't totally there until you find that place where you are. I will always lament all the things he didn't get to see me do as an adult but I know he is somewhere, if only in my heart, and he is proud of me.<br />
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Wishing you a happy and healthy 2013 and beyond.<br />
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Lauren and Righty.Lauren Hhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09608128317570165038noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-240401421344567903.post-5195687671730909052012-10-04T11:45:00.000-06:002012-10-04T11:45:20.211-06:00Don't Boil the Ocean<i>Here is a guest blog post I did last year for <a href="http://mindyourmind.ca/" target="_blank">mindyourmind.ca </a>about my donation and volunteering. Mindyourmind is a non-profit mental health program that engages youth, emerging adults and the professionals who serve them to co-develop reliable and relevant resources. These resources are designed to reduce the stigma associated with mental illness and increase access and use of community support, both professional and peer-based. Through the use of active engagement, best practice and technology, mindyourmind inspires youth to reach out, get help and give help. It was an awesome opportunity to partner with this organization and speak to you not just about organ donation, but about the power of each of us as individuals to make changes in our communities.</i><br />
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I've always wanted to volunteer-I mean its good to help others right? Support a cause you believe in? The trouble was, whenever I’d decide I was going to finally do it, I didn't know where to start. There are so many people, places and organizations that need help. So many diseases need cures, there are so many environmental causes and people support volunteer roles always seemed to need more time than I thought I could offer. I kind of felt defeated before I started-how could anything I do as one person make a difference? It seemed like I was trying to boil the ocean.<br />
<br />So I put it off. Every couple of years I'd think about it again, start to look into organizations and where they needed help and I’d become overwhelmed all over again. I just found it hard to believe in the “power of one”.<br /><br />Last summer I kept getting the feeling like something big was around the corner for me…that there was something I was supposed to be doing but just hadn't got to yet. But I couldn't figure out what that thing was. A couple of months later I was watching back seasons of Grey’s Anatomy and I saw an episode about a chain of kidney donations. One of the donors in the story was volunteering to donate to a complete stranger.<br /><br />As crazy as it sounds, as soon as I saw that I realized that I wanted to do that-I wanted to donate one of my kidneys to a stranger. It somehow made sense to me and I realized that this was what I was supposed to be doing-this is what the big thing around the corner was. The more I researched, the more it made sense.<br /><br />After a few months of tests and evaluations (and a few more of just waiting), I donated my left kidney to a stranger in early June. I thought I was helping one person. But I was wrong.<br /><br />My donation started a chain of four transplants that wouldn't have been possible without a “non-directed” donor like me coming along. I've been told the last recipient in the chain likely had been on the waitlist for a donor for a very long time. I was a part of something that not only helped four people, but had a huge impact on their families and friends as well.<br /><br />At the beginning of this journey, I started a <a href="http://tomakeachoice.blogspot.com/">blog</a> about my experience mostly to help my friends and family understand my decisions. What I quickly realized was that other people across the world, interested in Living Donation were finding it and using it as a resource. On top of that, my friends and family were sharing it with people they know, raising awareness of living donation as well as kidney disease. As my coworkers found out what I was doing, we saw a direct increase in blood donations at our company blood drives (I had a few say to me “I can't donate a kidney but I thought I could at least start donating blood”). In addition, a lady in the US who I have never met has used my story to teach preteen kids at her Sunday school about paying it forward. She told them they don't have to feel helpless-there are so many things they can do to help others and that sometimes even just sharing your life experiences can inspire and help people learn something new.<br /><br />I think that’s the biggest thing I've learned in all of this. Like I said, I thought I was doing something for one other person. But it’s brought me the opportunity to share my experience and what I’ve learned. Without realizing it, I've been getting people thinking about what they can do to make a difference in a way that makes sense to them (I get that not everyone wants to donate a kidney). It has helped me understand that I don’t need to boil the ocean or try to save the world-that one thing can have a ripple effect that goes further than you can ever see or know. I definitely understand now that there is power in one.Lauren Hhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09608128317570165038noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-240401421344567903.post-32071065031161978742012-09-28T16:01:00.001-06:002012-09-28T16:04:56.995-06:00Hope and the Fear of Loss<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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In the last couple of years I have had the pleasure of getting to know many wonderful people in the transplant and kidney community, both online and in real life. I have heard their stories of their valiant battles against critical illness and they have also shared other stories with me about others facing similar challenge. More often than not these stories are full of hope. They may have moments of darkness or hurdles along the way but they describe their success in such a positive way that they almost don't do the battles' difficulty levels justice. Their courage is inspiring and of course it makes me appreciate everything in my life that much more.<br />
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I have realized however, that as much as I love being a part of this community there is an inevitable downside to it that I maybe hadn't considered before. <b>Some of the people I have gotten to know and care about are going to get sick, have complications and may face a life threatening medical crisis. </b>I am going to be brutally honest and self-centred for a second. It scares me. It makes me feel sad that there is nothing I can do to help them. It makes me frustrated that there isn't more the medical community can do to help them (although I know they try very hard). It makes me worry. I'm not good with loss. Then again, I am not sure who is.<br />
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Sure, bad stuff and health problems can affect anyone at anytime. However people with transplants face the added challenge of having <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Immunosuppression" target="_blank">suppressed immune systems</a> and in some cases underlying medical conditions that linger, waiting to cause problems. Also, the stress of their illnesses on one body part can often begin to impact other areas. I forget that sometimes because most everyone I have met who has gone through a transplant seems so vibrant and healthy. Like nothing can touch them.<br />
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In the last couple of weeks I've heard of two people I met at the <a href="https://www.facebook.com/CanadianTransplantGames" target="_blank">Transplant Games</a> being hospitalized for lung issues. "Nothing too serious" their family and friends said, despite the fact they'd be in the hospital at least a couple of weeks. For most people, a couple of weeks in hospital is a big deal. I don't know?<br />
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This week I found out that one lady who I've only met a few times but who has influenced me so much, is in hospital as well. She had a heart attack over the weekend and while she has been stable, doctors are struggling to do something, ANYTHING to fix her. A <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Coronary_artery_bypass_surgery" target="_blank">bypass</a> won't work and will likely do more harm than good. Angioplasty seems like the only option but it too is risky and they aren't confident they can get through all the blockages. They are trying that today. She's been through so much already - it doesn't seem fair. She is such a kind, sweet, encouraging person who lights up a room. She believes in people and is the best cheerleader you could possibly want in your corner. Having had her in my corner a few times, I can certainly attest to this.<br />
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It's tough to watch people go through critical illness. I've been there with my Dad and to a lesser extent with one of my grand parents. I've watched other people close to me go through it with their loved ones (also very hard). There is a little part of me that worries that the more involved I get in raising awareness about organ donation, the more I might be more exposed to the loss (or the fear of loss) of people I care about than had I not become involved. It is probably selfish of me to think that way, but I worry about the effect it will have. I wish I could help.<br />
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I've never really been the praying kind of person - not as an adult anyway. I think what little of that I had in me was used up with my Dad. But in my own way, I'm sending all the positive thoughts I can to these people, crossing my fingers, hoping for the best and wishing all the wishes I can think of. It's all I can do.Lauren Hhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09608128317570165038noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-240401421344567903.post-48452257667309913672012-09-24T11:33:00.002-06:002012-09-24T11:36:14.244-06:00Snapshot-Life on Dialysis<br />
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I recently participate in my second <a href="http://kidneymarch.ca/" target="_blank">Kidney March</a>. On the journey, I met a lot of dialysis patients and their families. I also met several nurses who work with dialysis patients everyday. Some of those nurses wore a picture on their backs of a patient. He was supposed to be marching along side them but unfortunately, he passed away three weeks before the march, of complications from dialysis and kidney disease. He was 39. Hearing his story, and those of the patients on the march who dialysized in camp every night over the three days of the march, reminded me that dialysis is not as simple a solution as it sounds and it isn't a solution that anyone would be thrilled to accept, save for the fact that it keeps them alive.</div>
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Months ago, I asked several patients via the Internet across North America, what life on dialysis is like. Here are some of their responses (in their own words):<br />
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<li>The thing I hate most about dialysis, is prolly the whole looking for a kidney donor process. I mean, I feel uncomfortable borrowing 100 dollars from a friend, let alone asking them or anyone else for that matter to donate a kidney to me. It's just a very helpless and a lot of times hopeless feeling I think a lot of people o. Dialysis have. Also being stuck in the dialysis chair, when the alarm keeps going off, even tho u aren't moving, and the tech keeps accusing u of moving</li>
<li>Sticking whacking great big frickin' needles in my arm. Interrupted sleep as the alarm goes off at irregular intervals. Dx hangover day*. Whacking great big needles. Not being able to spontaneously get away for a break with my wife. Being tied to a machine process and sticking whacking great big frickin' needles in my arm. </li>
<li>As far as dialysis was concerned I hated it all. </li>
<li>The time commitment. Whether in center or at home, it's an unwelcome intrusion on my lifestyle.</li>
<li>The one thing i hate about dialysis is not being normal like the others that party, have fun in the world live a normal life with companions, partners, friends and such, the one thing I love is that you die faster because no matter what you'll never be like them (the ones mentioned before) and wheres the fun in that? Yeah you are spiritually advanced more than the normal ones but whats the point? :(</li>
<li>The worst thing about dialysis is how others unfamiliar with it look at and treat me....*and* how staff treat me as a child or as an adult who is incompetent, ignorant and almost as if I do not have the capacity to read, research, understand, comprehend, speak or do for myself or anything regarding my life. Being treated as a lower class of person!</li>
<li>Boring, dialysis washout. Can't travel out of Country, people look at you as the "reality of mortality."</li>
<li>I hate everything about it.......my 5th year anniversary tomorrow, it's like a prison sentence but worse. </li>
<li>I know it's "I hate Dialysis" but truthfully it's the PKD. that I hate! I took very good care of my body but ended up on dialysis anyway. </li>
<li>I just don't like it, I don't like how I feel. I don't like the complications I have from it, and just plain not feeling good. And also being looked at as "poor Melanie", being asked if I'm ok a hundred times when I'm having fun.... Its been a combined 20 years almost for me including transplant, I have other medical issues now too, but they all stem from CKD/ESRD. Its just a hard life. I look on the positive side and I'm so glad to have a way to survive and I'm not taking a single second I have for granted. But this life is not easy in any sense of the word. You are constantly reminded how fragile life is and how easy it is to just lose this fight. But to carry on and complain would be useless for me. </li>
<li>Can't even begin to express what i feel about been on dialysis aargh ###### hell </li>
<li>Starving yourself from foods you can't eat and not being able to hardly drink anything liquid. All the medications to take dealing with the aide effects of dialysis. And waiting for a live saving kidney to come along. </li>
<li>Definitely the severe cramping all the time </li>
<li>Only things I hated about dialysis were not being able to eat cheese, nuts, chocolate and drink diet coke. </li>
<li>Being tied to a machine 10 hours a night and always having to count hours if someone wants you to do something at night like if I get on at 9:00 I won't be done till 7:00 plus 2 hours to carry </li>
<li>Tape. it tears my skin off! plus everything else in the symptom list. I hate being tired consantly. never really feeling GOOD. its like dragging weights around all day. nausea. getting a nice meal and it wont go down or stay down. people cutting me a break cause I'm sick. nurses who say "I understand how you feel" Aggh! </li>
<li>The time spent sitting in a chair. Feeling left out, when friends and others are doing fun activities and I have dialysis</li>
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Transplantation may not be a cure for kidney disease but for most patients it is a far more managable treatment, with fewer side effects and issues and a much better quality of life. The problem is, there just aren't enough kidneys being donated, either through deceased donation or living donors. There also isn't enough being done to prevent kidney disease in the first place. People shouldn't be dying at 39 of kidney problems, just as they shouldn't be dying of cancer or heart disease. It is frustrating that we don't hear more about kidney disease but hopefully that will start changing soon. In the mean time, <a href="http://www.kidney.ca/page.aspx?pid=317" target="_blank">educate yourself about kidney disease</a>, register to be an organ donor and even consider becoming a living kidney donor.<br />
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Tomorrow morning, while many of you are still sleeping, or at the very least are in your cars, on your way to work, shaking your fist at the September traffic, I will be boarding a bus to Millarville. It is there that the <a href="http://kidneymarch.ca/" target="_blank">2012 Kidney March</a> will kick off, starting hundreds of marchers on a 100KM journey over three days through the foothills of southern Alberta.<br />
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Tonight at the sign in/orientation meeting the <a href="https://twitter.com/joycevandeurzen" target="_blank">executive director of the Southern Alberta & Saskatchewan.Branch of The Kidney Foundation of Canada </a> told us a story. It was about a marcher from year one of the march, two years ago. This marcher named <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jDtuiyoxkXU" target="_blank">Didja,</a> a dialysis patient who was actually dialysizing every night of the march at camp, was determined to make it every step. She was often at the rear of the pack but she didn't care. She was going to do it.<br />
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At one point during the last day, Didja climbed one of the larger hills, exhausted. When she reached the top she looked back and realized that for once, she wasn't the last marcher. There was another lady who had fallen behind her and was struggling up the hill. Didja proceeded to turn around, go back down the hill she had just climbed. She grabbed the arm of the lady who was struggling and helped her up the rest of the way. Together they made it to the top and kept on marching.<br />
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This story meant a lot to me for a few reasons. One, I am slow like a turtle so if you are looking for me on the march route, I'll be somewhere near the back. Slow and steady wins the race - not that this is a race. But the thing that really resonated with me was what Didja did. Because over the last year, and certainly over the last few weeks, there have been so many people like Didja that have gone back and helped me up the hill (so to speak).<br />
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When I started to wonder if I was out of place in promoting organ donation, so many people stepped up to tell me I needed to continue. They shared personal stories that helped me remember the value in talking about my donation experience. They cheered me on and encouraged me to keep on keeping on. Sometimes when the self doubts get loud, you need other people around you to step up and be louder. And that happened for me which is great. I will always have cynics and naysayers in my universe, but a whole lot of people made them easier to ignore.<br />
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In recent weeks I was also starting to panic about raising the minimum amount ($2200) needed for the Kidney March. If you don't raise it by October, you pay the difference. Some of the donors I had last year weren't donating this year which meant I needed to find new donors. I'm pretty shy and don't have the largest networking base so this was extremely daunting to me. I made flyers and handed them out in my neighbourhood. Nothing. I talked about the march on Facebook and Twitter. Nothing at first. but then slowly but surely, donations started coming in. And within hours of my orientation meeting tonight, I hit, then exceeded that minimum donation. Huge.Weight Lifted.<br />
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I don't even know where to start in thanking my donors. They are all so wonderful to me for so many reasons. Over my next few posts about the march I'll probably get into the "why" but in the meantime, here are a few fun, random facts about my fantastic Kidney March backers.<br />
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<li>My "furthest away" donor is from Louisiana. Despite a hurricane looming, she still took the time to not only donate, but promote the march to her friends and family</li>
<li>Four of my donors have had transplants. One liver, two double lungs and a kidney. People who would not be alive today if it wasn't for both living and deceased donors.</li>
<li>I had 36 donors. Seven of them have names starting with J.</li>
<li>Three of my donors I have never met in person</li>
<li>Six people I have only met once in person</li>
<li>I had donors from Edmonton, Calgary, BC, Ontario (many parts), Texas and Louisiana</li>
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Thank you to everyone who has supported me along the way. Tomorrow (and the next three days), I will walk for you. </div>
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I've been a little slow in posting here for a few reasons.
The first is that this summer has been very busy! I was involved with the <a href="http://www.organ-donation-works.org/english/events/canadian-transplant-games/" target="_blank">CanadianTransplant Games</a> (more to come on that in possible future posts). I also took a
trip to Ontario to see the family and some friends. For many of them, it was
their first time seeing me since my donation in June of 2011. While they all
knew I was fine, I think it helps some people to physically see you to believe it.
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The other reason I’ve stayed away from the blog I guess is
what you could call a crisis of faith (of sorts) about what role promoting
organ donation should have in my life. I’ve done a fair bit of thinking about
it but still haven’t come to a place where I am totally comfortable.<o:p></o:p></div>
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This is the situation. There are a few people in my universe who
would like me to stop talking about organ donation (and for that matter, <a href="http://kidney.akaraisin.com/pledge/Participant/Home.aspx?seid=4560&mid=9&pid=771276" target="_blank">marching for kidneys</a>, encouraging blood donation etc). They don’t understand why I care
so deeply about it, or why I want to spend my time talking about it, sharing
success stories and educating people about its many facets. Sure I’ve explained
it but the message isn’t being received. Now some people would say to just
ignore them, who cares what they think and so forth. But it is hard when they
are close to you and you value their opinion on things in general. It’s not
that they don’t support organ donation – they’d donate on death if that was an
option - they just don’t think I should be actively promoting it. And they are
vocal about it, frequently telling me to stop and on occasion mocking it by
calling me things like “organ girl” or implying that’s the only thing I ever talk about.<o:p></o:p></div>
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I‘ve tried to get to the root of “why” they feel this way.
There are several different reasons I
was given although two common ones seemed to stand out. The first is that they think it
is weird to talk about things associated with body parts/death/illness. The
second is reason is being as I/my family/friends have never needed an organ, I’m
creeping on a cause that I have no business being involved in.<o:p></o:p></div>
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It’s tough. I’m not sure what to do to be honest. Yes, when
you talk about organ donation, you do talk about body parts/death/illness. But
you also get to meet and learn from some pretty interesting, <a href="https://www.facebook.com/CanadianTransplantGames" target="_blank">inspiring people</a>.
That’s what I like about it. I’ve learned so much about science and the medical
world – which is very cool to me. I love reading medical journals and websites
and then taking that info and being able to make it relevant to the everyday
conversation. On the flipside, I’ve also had a chance to learn so much about
the human spirit and the strength people can find in themselves to carry on. That
intrigues me as well and really puts life in perspective.<o:p></o:p></div>
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Yes, no one in my family has ever needed an organ – it’s
true. Does that make me some kind of fraud, speaking about things I shouldn’t have
an interest in? Some would argue my being a kidney donor makes me part of the transplant
community. I think for others though, the fact I donated to a complete stranger
should have been enough (and was weird enough all on its own). My involvement
in the transplant world should have ended when I left the hospital. All the
stuff that has come after it (the blogging, social media promotion, media stories, volunteering) is overdoing it, taking things too far. Is it?<o:p></o:p></div>
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Here is what I do know. In September of 2010, I suddenly had
a strong feeling of something big being around the corner for me, something
that would deeply impact my life and “make everything make sense” if you will.
As flakey (and not me) as that sounds, the “kidney thing” was the start of
that. The idea came to me (to look into living donation) and it totally made
sense. I started writing about it, which again, totally made sense to me. I
felt like I had found a purpose, something I could do to help other people. And
it has continued. The funny part is, I’ve never been that person who really wanted
to help other people. Not that I was a Scroogey Grinch; I’d just never really volunteered for anything,
I hadn’t really been involved with any kind of fundraising and I didn’t really
have any “causes” I actively cared about. Donating a kidney changed everything
for me. Two of my best friends have both
independently said that I seem to have found my calling. I’d never use those
words but there is some truth to that. I love being involved in the
transplant and kidney communities,
talking about it and sharing stories with people to raise awareness. Learning about the medical processes intrigues me. I get
excited whenever I sit down to write a blog post or attend an event. Despite being
shy in new social settings, I have loved meeting people involved in the transplant
world and hearing their stories, asking them things I’ve wondered about
transplant patients. I’ve met patient and donor families as well as some pretty
amazing medical staff and I’ve learned a lot from all of them.<o:p></o:p></div>
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One of the people I met during the Canadian Transplant Games
had an interesting comment about my involvement that has stuck with me. She
said that in my situation, I probably have some advantages over people in the
transplant community when it comes to raising awareness. She said that because
I am not sick myself, didn’t receive an organ, nor am I worried about saving a sick family member, people outside the
transplant community might listen to me first. She said “They might perceive you to be more
unbiased - someone they can better relate to. Just like the kidney donation,
you don’t have a specific person or reason you are doing it for. You aren’t
getting anything out of it.”<o:p></o:p></div>
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Other than of course, the fact that I like to help and I have a passion for it. Despite that though, I've found myself lately quite hesitant to share organ
donation news articles via Twitter or Facebook or even talk much in person about people
or things I experienced at the transplant games. I know I’ve definitely had a
case of writer’s block too despite having a lot of topics and stories to write
about. I don’t want to stop what I’ve been doing the last year and a half
(because I love it and think its important) but at the same time I don’t want
to alienate people who are close to me either (because I love them and think
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This year as part of my involvement with the Canadian Transplant Games, I decided to head down to the parade staging area to take some pictures of the float the Canadian Transplant Association was putting in the parade. I'm organizing their <a href="https://www.facebook.com/CanadianTransplantGames" target="_blank">Facebook page</a> and <a href="https://twitter.com/CTG_Calgary2012" target="_blank">Twitter</a> account and thought pictures would be a great way to help create awareness about the games and of course, organ donation.<br />
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Walking through the staging area itself was very cool. I've never seen so many different horses...or so many horses in one spot (there are something like 750 horses in the parade...I only saw a fraction of that and was impressed). Eventually I found my way through horses (and one very giant bull tied to a small trailer) to where all the floats were waiting. I could spot the <a href="http://www.organ-donation-works.org/" target="_blank">Canadian Transplant Association</a> float no problem...lots of green! <span style="background-color: white;">As I got closer, I couldn't help but be taken with it. It really did a fantastic job of telling the story of organ donation. The back part would be where several recipients would ride, waving, cheering and showing people what a second chance at life looked like. </span><br />
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<span style="background-color: white;">They had great shirts made for recipients which showed what they had received and when. It was a great visual. While I was watching one of the youngest recipients put on his shirt, I was reminded of one of the magical side effects of the games - connecting people with similar health experiences together. Being a place where transplant patients can feel more normal. When the boy had put on his shirt that said "Heart 2004" one of the moms of another little girl there said to her daughter "Look - he has the Same shirt AND year as you". I remember what it was like being a kid that age and I can only imagine how neat it was for both the kids to find another kid who had a heart transplant the same year.</span><br />
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Someone (not me) did comment a little later in the morning that perhaps some photos of living donors should have been added. I can't speak for all living donors but I kind of liked it the way it was. Sure, we are all donors but a part of me thinks deceased donors and their families are in a league of their own - this was an opportunity to let what they did be the focus.<br />
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A few family members of donors were there to be part of the parade and honour the gift their family member made. I briefly got to know one mother and neice who were there to honour their "Tiffy". Tiffany Lynn Cox was a 19 year old who had her whole life ahead of her when she <a href="http://www.calgaryjournal.ca/index.php/family-life/families/468-fatal-fire-continues-to-haunt-family" target="_blank">died as a result of fire in 2009</a>. Three years later, it was evident that their pain was still raw and still very much there.<span style="background-color: white;">Their participation in the parade was part of the healing process for the family.</span><span style="background-color: white;"> As I listened to Tiffany's Mom talk throughout the morning about her daughter, the fire and her decision to donate Tiffany's organs, I was struck by how much she reminded me of my Mom. In reality they are nothing alike but the pride, the fierce love and they wanting to protect her daughter very much mirror qualities I have seen in my Mom over the years. What was also interesting was that Tiffany's Mom was not originally a supporter of organ donation. But when tragedy struck their family, she knew what </span><span style="background-color: white;">Tiffany</span><span style="background-color: white;"> would have wanted, even if it went against her own </span><span style="background-color: white;">beliefs</span><span style="background-color: white;">. And in doing so, she said it has helped her immensely to know that Tiffany lives on in five other people. </span><br />
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<span style="background-color: white;">I met another Mom who was on the other side of the spectrum. Her son, <a href="http://calgarypolitics.com/2012/01/12/jason/" target="_blank">Jason Letourneau</a>, was born with a major heart defect and spent much of his childhood travelling from Saskatchewan to <a href="http://www.sickkids.ca/" target="_blank">Sick Kids</a> in Toronto as well as Edmonton to get treatment. When he was 22 he received a heart transplant, a gift his family will be forever grateful for. He worked hard to honour that gift, working and volunteering for many community organizations including the <a href="http://www.organ-donation-works.org/" target="_blank">Canadian Transplant Association</a>. Sadly, Jason passed away early 2012 of Pneumonia. "His heart was still doing fine" his mother boasted to me. "He just was unlucky and seemed to get everything else...<a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Influenza_A_virus_subtype_H1N1" target="_blank">H1N1</a>, you name it". She said even though they lost him at 40, he had lived so much longer than they thought he would as a child and they were thankful for that transplant every single day. Being so close in age to Jason, I couldn't help but reflect on how much living I had done in the last 18 years. While forty is too young to die, those 18 years of quality life post transplant he had were an amazing gift he wouldn't have had otherwise. We can do a lot in 18 years, especially we we make the most of everyday. When his Mom learned of my social media love/involvement she lit up and asked if I had known Jason. He had loved Twitter and all that "other social media stuff". I knew of him but hadn't known him. I wish I had gotten the chance.</span><br />
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<span style="background-color: white;">At the last minute, I ended up having an invitation to walk along the float in the parade. It was truly an honour and a once in a lifetime experience - how could I say no? What was most wonderful was how awesome Calgarians were all along the parade route. When spectators realized what our float was all about, the cheers and clapping grew louder. People yelled out things like "Yay organs!" and "Congratulations transplant people" and "Organ donation rocks!". I found myself a couple of times overcome with what I have become a part of, as a donor. Yep, there I was, tearing up in the middle of 6th Ave, walking in a parade, somewhat behind a dancing horse mascot and ahead of a marching band. It was a pretty surreal, but awesome experience.</span><br />
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A little more than a year and a half ago, I stumbled into a world I had never known before: The Transplant Community.<br />
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It's a world made up of everyday people, families, friends, strangers and of course doctors and nurses. In the beginning, my view of the community was mostly medical staff and a small group of them at that. Over time, closer to my donation, I met a couple of other non-directed donors like myself. Post surgery I finally met one or two kidney recipients as well as kidney patients living on the edge of the community, waiting for their transplants.<br />
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A few months ago I threw my name in the hat to be involved in some kind of volunteer capacity with the <a href="http://www.organ-donation-works.org/english/index.php" target="_blank">Canadian Transplant Association</a>, specifically with the <a href="http://www.organ-donation-works.org/english/eve-Clagary-Games.htm" target="_blank">Canadian Transplant Games</a>. The games are held in a different city each year and this year happens to be Calgary's turn (July 16-22). I actually remember my living donor coordinator telling me about the games just weeks after my donation of Leftie, and how it would be great for me to attend the donor events as well as perhaps volunteer too.<br />
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I've been doing what I can to help out with the media team for the games, including helping with a fundraiser they recently did at <a href="http://www.schanks.com/home.asp?location=calgarysouth" target="_blank">Schanks</a> here in Calgary. In doing so I've had the opportunity to meet a handful of "non-kidney" organ recipients. What an amazing experience. It is so refreshing to meet people who don't take life for granted. They've all faced some pretty serious battles in their lives and were given a second chance through someone else's gift. To say they are inspiring doesn't really do it justice. They are so open about both their gratitude as well as the stories behind why they needed transplants. Medical jargon is tossed around the way most people would chat about sports and weather as is their appreciation for everyone and every thing that played a role in where they are now. It makes for great conversation!<br />
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One of the interesting things I've observed along the way in this community is how people define and introduce themselves by their organ related situation. For example, I met a volunteer who was introduced to me as "mother of a double lung transplant". Others introduced themselves as "double lung" or "kidney transplants". At the fundraiser, I found myself frequently being introduced by others to others as "kidney donor-to a STRANGER". (Remember the <a href="http://tomakeachoice.blogspot.ca/2011/07/theres-pain-in-ma-belly.html" target="_blank">blinks I used to get on the stranger part</a>? Yeah - they happen in this world too! )<br />
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Through these introductions and conversations I've been fortunate to hear a lot of great stories of hope and determination. I've learned a lot about diseases, some genetic and some very random, that have required people-many of them younger than me - to need transplants. Things like <a href="http://www.cysticfibrosis.ca/en/index.php" target="_blank">Cystic Fibrosis</a>, <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pulmonary_fibrosis" target="_blank">pulmonary fibrosis</a>, <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pulmonary_hypertension" target="_blank">pulmonary hypertension</a> and <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Focal_segmental_glomerulosclerosis" target="_blank">segmental glomerulosclerosis</a> (Imagine trying to remember <b>that last one</b> for Googling later while at a lively bar function!). I've learned that there is such a thing as <a href="http://tomakeachoice.blogspot.ca/2011/09/surgeons-choice.html" target="_blank">"surgeons choice"</a> too for lung transplants (who knew there was more than one way to get that done!). It is inspiring to hear what recipients can do post transplant (almost anything anyone else can do) and what they need to <a href="http://thetransplantnetwork.com/faq/faqs-for-the-transplant-recipient/" target="_blank">avoid</a> (buffets, large crowds, sun). More than anything, the stories these wonderful people have shared with me have reminded me that nothing in my life has been significantly hard and that we could all learn something about the human spirit from transplant recipients.<br />
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I'm not sure where I really fit into this community...I kind of feel like a visitor rather than a new arrival, which is fine. It really is a world focused on recipients (rightfully so) and their families. <span style="background-color: white;">They've all been through so much.</span><span style="background-color: white;">. It's also about celebrating the idea of donor families (most deceased donor recipients in Canada never know who their donors were) and the ultimate choice they made that made these second chances possible. Oddly enough I haven't met any living donors through the <a href="http://www.organ-donation-works.org/" target="_blank">Canadian Transplant Association</a> pre-games activities as of yet. I know we are a small group, with non-directed donors being an even smaller sliver of that. It will be interesting to see if I meet any at the upcoming Donor Family Luncheon that is part of the games.</span><br />
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<span style="background-color: white;">Organ donation and the need for more donors takes on a whole new meaning as you start to surround yourself with people who are alive today because of organ donors. Meeting the friends and families who hoped and wished and prayed for a miracle for months if not years is also powerful. They fiercely support and rally around each other. They believe so deeply in raising awareness so that other can get their second chance too. In a way, the Transplant Community in Canada is a multi-layered family. I feel like if more people could get a glimpse of this world, get to know this giant "family", we'd see a rise in Canadians registering to be donors. I'm hoping that is something I can help with.</span>Lauren Hhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09608128317570165038noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-240401421344567903.post-38449176124594436582012-06-29T13:22:00.000-06:002012-06-30T06:07:36.031-06:00Presumed Consent<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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There is a movement forming in Canada to get the government to mandate a "Presumed Consent" organ donation policy. Presumed consent or "opt out" organ donation essentially assumes that everyone is willing to donate their organs in the event of <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Brain_death" target="_blank">brain</a> or <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sudden_cardiac_death" target="_blank">cardiac</a> death unless they have opted out.<br />
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The presumed consent system is essentially the opposite of what we have now in Canada. Currently, if you suffer brain death, your family is given the option of "opting in" or donating your organs. Also, depending on the province you live in, you may have had the option of registering your intentions via an online registry. In provinces without an online registry, you have the option of indicating your wish to be an organ donor on your drivers license. In the end though, the decision lies with your next of kin.<br />
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There are currently 24 countries in Europe who have adopted some form of the "opt out" model. In some of those countries (Spain, Austria for example) the presumed consent model has meant an increase in organ donors. A few countries actually have a lower than average organ donation rates (Sweden for example) but on average, countries who adopt this type of donation system do see higher donation rates. This is especially critical for people waiting for hearts, lungs, pancreas and some liver patients as cadaver donors are their only option. It also greatly benefits those waiting for kidneys (what 75% of Canadians on the transplant list are waiting for) as kidneys needed far exceed the number of living donors each year.<br />
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<span style="border: 0px; margin: 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px; text-align: left; vertical-align: baseline;">If Canada was to adopt an opt out system, advocates (including the <a href="http://www.liver.ca/liver-disease/types/?gclid=CIyUheXp87ACFUYCQAodgXD5FA" target="_blank">Canadian Liver Foundation</a>) believe the country could boost its donation rates, which is one of lowest in the world. Currently only 13 out of every million Canadians becomes an organ donor, compared with 20 per million in the U.S., and more than 31 per million in Spain.<span style="font-family: arial, verdana, sans-serif;"><span style="line-height: 25px;"><br /></span></span><br />The big question is this: are we ready for it in Canada? My opinion is a bit mixed. I think from a belief and attitude perspective we are - in some ways. When asked, most Canadians believe organ donation (in general) is a good thing. Most Canadians would have no problem accepting an organ if needed. However many Canadians simply haven't taken the time to register their choice to be an organ donor and have not discussed their wishes with their families. It isn't top of mind. Which obviously is part of the cause of our low donor rates. An opt out system would be an improvement in that regard. Which would definitely save lives.</span><br />
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Where I think we aren't perhaps ready is from a registry perspective. At this point, we don't have a national registry where people can note their intentions. Some provinces have great online registries while other provinces, like Alberta, are lagging substantially behind. In my mind we need a national database capable of housing the preferences of Canadians in regards to organ donation. The registry would need to be accessible to hospitals across the country somewhat similar to the <a href="http://www.unos.org/" target="_blank">UNOS system</a> in the U.S. (but better of course). We would need a well defined national transplant program instead of provinces working in health care silos as they do now. There would need to be a greater ability to coordinate the sharing organs across provincial borders as well. (I do know that transplant doctors, coordinators etc. do meet and share best practices across the country but it needs to be formalized and improved).</div>
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The other issue I see preventing a presumed consent system <b>right now</b> is the same issue that plagues our current system: awareness/apathy. There are still so many misconceptions about organ donation. For example, some people still think that religion prevents them from being donors or that doctors are less likely to save people who have registered as organ donors (not true on both counts). Under a new system, this could result in many people opting out due to a lack of understanding or fear. At least under the current system, doctors and coordinators can approach donor families to get consent and can perhaps talk through some of the fears/misconceptions with the families of potential donors.</div>
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Most people don't have any idea what opt out or presumed consent means (<a href="http://www.presumedconsent.org/solutions.htm" target="_blank">here is a U.S. site explaining it</a>). While I fully support the idea of a presumed consent system (it is a good idea and critical to saving more lives), I think we need to better educate Canadians on what that means (and doesn't mean) to them. If we expect Canadians to get on board and support the petitioning and lobbying of the government to change the system, we need to give them the "why". Without education in place, we run the risk of generating more apathy towards organ donation amongst Canadians or worse, decreasing the amount of organ donation support we currently have. I think petitioning the government is just one step of many to improve organ donation in Canada and it needs to involve an educational component so that people understand how it could improve things, while not impacting their rights and freedoms or medical care.</div>
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I <b>am</b> confident we can overcome these hurdles in time-sooner rather than later with more national focus and collaboration from our medical systems as well as organ donation advocacy groups. The good news is that organ donation seems to be getting more an more press as time goes on which hopefully will create the momentum and awareness this cause needs to improve donation numbers, get more resources put towards improving the current system and so forth.</div>
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If you are ready to support an opt out system of organ donation in Canada, you can sign a petition <a href="http://www.gopetition.com/petitions/save-lives-through-presumed-organ-donation.html" target="_blank">here</a>. To register to be an organ donor under our current system, <a href="http://www.becauseicanproject.com/#/register-canada/" target="_blank">here's a great list of links by province</a>. Don't forget to talk to your family about your wishes.</div>
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<b><span style="background-color: white;">Would</span> love to hear your thoughts: Is Canada ready to start talking about a presumed consent organ donation system? Do you support a presumed consent system?</b></div>Lauren Hhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09608128317570165038noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-240401421344567903.post-58113139550856430772012-06-22T19:32:00.000-06:002013-03-27T09:13:11.874-06:00My Sticky Story<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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"Write what you know" was something I was taught a lot growing up. There is good reason for it too. Writing about things that mean something to you, whether it be football, cats, food or cars, helps create "<a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Made_to_Stick">sticky stories</a>" or ideas. The idea of a "sticky idea" or story comes from the book <span style="background-color: white;"><b style="font-family: sans-serif; font-size: 13px; font-style: italic; line-height: 19px;"><a href="http://www.amazon.ca/Made-Stick-Ideas-Survive-Others/dp/1400064287" target="_blank">Made to Stick: Why Some Ideas Survive and Others Die</a>.</b><span style="font-family: sans-serif; font-size: x-small;"><span style="line-height: 19px;"> </span></span></span>It's a great way of explaining why some things stay with us, while others don't. Basically, a sticky story has a number of the following features (naturally, not in a fabricated kind of way-you can't fake it or it won't work):<br />
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Anybody can write about anything, but when you are passionate about a topic, people can feel it as they read, making your ideas more meaningful and engaging (sticky). It also means that readers will be more likely to share your ideas with others. As it turns out, I wrote a sticky story, by sharing an experience that was near and dear to me.<br />
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In February, I wrote a <a href="http://tomakeachoice.blogspot.ca/2012_02_12_archive.html">post about one of the main reasons</a> I opted to become a living donor last year: the loss of my dad to <a href="http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmedhealth/PMH0001328/" target="_blank">cancer</a>. It was a very emotional blog for me to write and I hoped it would explain my decision to donate in a way that might get other people thinking about the idea. I shared the post on social media (Facebook and <a href="https://twitter.com/#!/LaurenHerschel">Twitter</a>), received a few comments from friends and life moved on.</div>
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Three weeks ago I received an email from someone who follows me on Twitter. She explained to me that she read my post back in February and it had stuck with her over the last few months. Being in communications, she was wondering if I'd be okay if she pitched my story to her media contacts and maybe they could include it as a Father's Day piece. She thought it would be a great way to increase awareness and possibly encourage others to become donors. I agreed and she put things in motion. It was really wonderful of her to take this on - I can't begin to express how much I appreciate her efforts. </div>
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The Calgary Herald was interested and an interview was quickly scheduled.They ran the <a href="http://www2.canada.com/calgaryherald/news/story.html?id=11d1ad31-f632-4729-8a6e-cceb4f49e67d" target="_blank">story</a> over the weekend, for Father's Day. I think the reporter did a great job in making it even more "sticky". So far it has been shared at over 140 times (minimum) via social sites and hopefully has encouraged people to think about organ donation in general. At the very least, I hope it made people appreciate their dads a little more on Fathers Day. </div>
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When I first started this blog it was for me - a journal of sorts. It quickly became a tool for my friends and family to better understand my decision to become a non-directed donor. Along the way, I've had a doctor, a publisher and a couple of other people suggest (or in some cases insist) I write a book about my experiences to raise awareness about organ donation in general. I am not quite in a place where I am ready to write that book, but I'm getting closer.<br />
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My best friend made the comment the other day: "You do realize this is your calling right?". I guess it is. I love it and I am passionate about it. I feel like I can make a difference.In the last year, I feel like I've been presented with a huge opportunity and responsibility to speak to the need for more organ donors in Canada.</div>
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Earlier in the week, there was also <a href="http://metronews.ca/news/calgary/264219/calgary-donor-celebrates-kidneyversary-without-lefty/" target="_blank">another article in Metro Calgary</a> by another reporter who had read <a href="http://tomakeachoice.blogspot.ca/2012/06/two-and-half-inches.html" target="_blank">my anniversary blog post.</a> I am really grateful for both the Calgary Herald and Metro stories this week. Being a communications type professionally, I appreciate how lucky I was to get not one but two major publications to share my story and help put a face or a "sticky" story to organ donation. </div>
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Lauren Hhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09608128317570165038noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-240401421344567903.post-1643849826094325982012-06-16T08:47:00.001-06:002012-06-16T08:47:46.595-06:00Iron Woman I am Not<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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As part of the follow-up care my local living donor program offers, I can opt in to yearly tests to make sure everything is a-ok with Righty. It is a win-win situation-my test results help living donor programs on a national level track the health of donors over time and I get to have my results looked at by a local nephrologist who would likely spot small changes my family doctor might not notice. I can opt out of the program any time but to me it is a no-brainer. Get the tests and know I am healthy every June, and continue to see my family doctor for annual check ups in October.<br />
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The tests include a half dozen things tested via blood samples, a urine test (to look for protein or infection) and a 24 hour blood pressure test. I completed the tests the last week in May. I knew I had passed the blood pressure test with flying colours and it was my biggest concern. So I was pretty surprised when I got a call from the program. They are only supposed to call if there is an issue so the message to call them back they left had me a bit nervous. Eventually I got a hold of them and they booked me an appointment to see the nephrologist (Dr. Kidney) as my iron (or hemoglobin) was "a bit low".<br />
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It turns out a bit low meant a lot low, especially for me. Normal for a woman is 120 g/L to 160 g/L. Before I donated, I was always in the high 130's to min 140's. Right after I donated, that fell to the high 120's (which is normal). That drop was okay because kidneys are responsible for the maturation of red blood cells. Without the kidneys, red blood cells would be without hemoglobin, the iron-rich protein that carries oxygen to various locations throughout the body. So when Leftie departed, it was another job Righty had to start doing on her own and would need time to adjust to.<br />
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My iron levels held there own at least until October, which was when my last blood test was prior to these most recent ones at the end of May. Something since the fall has made my iron drop to 106, which mean I am anemic. As there was no change in my diet, "monthly gifts" and I didn't have any other major bleeding issues, my doctor was a bit perplexed. Other than fatigue, I wasnt showing any symptoms such as:<br />
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<li>Red meat (woot steak!)</li>
<li>Egg yolks</li>
<li>Dark, leafy greens (spinach, collards)</li>
<li>Dried fruit (prunes, raisins)</li>
<li>Iron-enriched cereals and grains </li>
<li>Mollusks (oysters, clams, scallops)</li>
<li>Turkey or chicken giblets (um no)</li>
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I know a fair number of women who haven't donated a kidney and have had problems with anemia over time so this doesn't concern me too much right now. It's also nice to know why I've had bouts of being really tired over the last couple of months too. I am being monitored by the <a href="http://www.albertahealthservices.ca/services.asp?pid=service&rid=1738" target="_blank">Living Donor program</a> AND my family doctor so I am in good hands. </div>Lauren Hhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09608128317570165038noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-240401421344567903.post-66563649881252915002012-06-07T07:47:00.000-06:002012-06-07T07:56:31.014-06:00Two and a Half Inches<table cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="float: left; margin-right: 1em; text-align: left;"><tbody>
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Can you believe it's been a year? Today is the one year anniversary of Leftie checking out of me and into his new home. In some regards it was the end of at least a leg of the journey for me. All the waiting and testing and waiting and stress was over. I had made it through and reached my goal of being a living kidney donor. While at the time I didn't realize it, a whole new chapter was also beginning.<br />
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There is a two and a half inch, faded white scar that sits just to the left of my belly button. That, along with another two little "scar-ettes" is all that seems to physically remain as evidence anything ever happened. I'm healthier than I've been for most of my adult life - my blood pressure is great, I've lost about 30+ pounds through exercise and I'm feeling pretty good. At the same time, I'm a very different person than I was a year and a day ago. I'm braver. I'm smarter about a lot of things. I think I am more focused and I am definitely more confident. It's like I am a new and improved version of myself, minus a kidney.<br />
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People often ask me if anything has changed in my life. I think to be honest, the biggest hurdle I have had to overcome is coming to terms with the idea of saving a life. Seriously. It is really difficult to explain but it is much harder than you think. It is <b>so</b> much bigger than me. It is huge- heavy, clunky and awkward. At the same time, it is wonderful, unbelievable, humbling and exciting. For a long time, when people talked about my donation, it seemed like they were talking about someone else, a different version of me. Doing something like this changes who you are, both to others and to yourself. It can become a bit of a label and like all labels, there are ups and downs. On the one hand I am very proud of what I have done and want to share it in the hopes that maybe others might also become donors in some way (living, deceased...even <a href="http://www.bloodservices.ca/" target="_blank">blood donors</a>). There are other times where I worry that I have championed a cause that is too individual to promote. Organ donation IS personal and people don't always want to talk about it. Am I doing the right thing in trying to engage people in the conversation? And will it make any kind of difference?<br />
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In the last year I've had the opportunity to guide/mentor three other living donors (yay!) through their own surgeries. Two were also donating to strangers and I have to hope that this a sign that there is a trend of more non-directed donors stepping up. I was very luck to have a mentor going into my surgery and it has been pretty amazing to "pay it forward". I've also connected with dozens of other living donors online and in person and have been able to swap stories and experiences with them. In the long run, I think these connections will not only increase awareness about living donation, but will also probably make the donation process itself better. As these <a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/97311124581/" target="_blank">online</a> and "real life" communities continue to share best practices with one another, it is encouraging to see the medical community taking notes on how to make things better from a patient perspective.<br />
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I'd be lying if I said I didn't often wonder about Leftie: how he's doing, and more importantly how his new owner is doing. All I can do is hope that they are both well and will continue to be that way for many years to come. That would make me very happy.<br />
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I'd like to take the opportunity to thank a few people. I know I won't cover everybody and I apologize for that but I have to start somewhere. To my awesome friends and family, who went from looking at me like I was crazy when I first started talking about this journey to flooding me with cheerleader calls, emails and Facebook posts the day of surgery, to supporting me as I continue to talk and promote organ donation - thank you. I'd also like to thank the people at <a href="http://www.albertahealthservices.ca/services.asp?pid=saf&rid=1084906" target="_blank">Foothills</a> who were so wonderful to me throughout the process and afterwards. (Dr. Y, Dr. M and Teresa to name a few). Thanks for making sure I came out the other end okay and for not getting too upset when I didn't want to eat the green Jello post surgery. I'd also like to tip my hat to the <a href="http://kidney.ca/" target="_blank">Kidney Foundation of Canada</a> - at the national level and in <a href="http://www.kidney.ca/page.aspx?pid=266" target="_blank">southern Alberta</a>, for their support all along the way. They have repeatedly given me a platform to tell my story and help increase awareness about organ donation and have welcomed me into their community.<br />
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Finally thanks to anyone and everyone who has ever read this blog, whether they kept it to themselves, left a comment or shared a post around the web. Thanks for keeping me going and also for helping me fall in love with writing all over again.<br />
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It's funny how it took giving away an organ, to find a part of me that has been missing a long time. And how something as small as two and a half inches can forever change your world.Lauren Hhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09608128317570165038noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-240401421344567903.post-68990706916808589032012-06-01T10:14:00.000-06:002012-06-01T10:14:36.972-06:00Dialysis isn't a cure<br />
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The <a href="http://www2.niddk.nih.gov/">National Institute of Diabetes and Digestive and Kidney Diseases</a> (out of the US) reports the dialysis survival rate at close to 80 percent through one year, 64 percent through two years, 33 percent after five years and 10 percent through 10 years. There are many types of cancer (which get much more public and media attention) that have better survival rates than that.</div>
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I was really surprised to learn this. Because of my lack of exposure (thankfully) to kidney disease, I had always assumed dialysis did the exact job that a healthy person's kidneys would do and while a little inconvenient, a person could live a totally normal life with the treatment. As I've continued to learn more about dialysis, the "day to day" things you hear about from patients that don't make it onto the "About Dialysis" information pages are eye opening. So many people have had the experience of seeing a fellow dialysis centre patient go into medical distress or cardiac arrest while receiving the treatment. Many have expressed sadness of learning that a patient they have sat beside every day for months while being dialisized who "seemed fine" has suddenly died. As if living with a critical illness isn't emotionally tough on its own; so many patients have to experience the loss of other patients, just like them. It's has to be hard to hold onto hope in that situation.<br />
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Dialysis patients are tough. They rally around each other and look for the silver lining in their situations. I am amazed at how they get through something that doesn't ever have a scheduled end date (other than a transplant and even that isn't a predictable date). You want to learn more about how to be resilient? Talk to a dialysis patient. At the same time, I don't think it is fair that this is the only treatment option for so many people.<br />
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What is the solution? Well first off all, prevent more people from needing dialysis in the first place. Kidney disease affect too many people to not be getting more educational and media attention, the way that Cancer, AIDS, MS and Heart and Stroke do in Canada. As adults we need to learn <a href="http://www.kidney.org/news/newsroom/newsitem.cfm?id=29">what we need to do to keep our kidneys healthy</a> and do it. We need to teach our kids as well. We need to understand <a href="http://kidney.ca/page.aspx?pid=333">who is more at risk</a> and make sure there is the right supports in place to help them. Secondly, we need better treatments for those with kidney disease to slow down the progression of their disease so they don't end up with ESRD. This means more research and understanding into the causes of kidney disease and coming up with alternate treatment if not cures for some forms of kidney failure. In the meantime, an increase in both <a href="http://www.kidney.ca/page.aspx?pid=375">living</a> and <a href="http://www.kidney.ca/page.aspx?pid=384">deceased donors</a> would help get many folks off dialysis and effectively save their lives, in a way that dialysis simply can't.<br />
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Dialysis is the only treatment, other than transplantation, for end stage renal disease (ESRD). ESRD occurs when your kidney function drops below approximately 8-12%%, effectively meaning that your body can no longer rid itself of toxins on its own. <a href="http://www.medicinenet.com/script/main/art.asp?articlekey=2980">Dialysis</a> is a procedure that is a substitute for many of the normal duties of the kidneys<span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 20px;">.</span>Without dialysis or a new kidney, people who are in this stage of kidney failure will die in a relatively short period of time as toxins and fluids build up in their bodies. And in case you were wondering, toxins are not a result of eating bad things, doing drugs, or drinking alcohol - many of the vitamins and minerals we consume are processed by the kidneys. If the kidneys can't process and regulate these properly, too much or too little of these nutrients can become harmful to our system. The kidneys also do other things like:<br />
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What makes dialysis unpleasant? Of course that is a subjective term but in a nutshell, here are some of the things that dialysis patients may face (these can depend on the type of dialysis they do):<br />
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<li>Infection</li>
<li>Low blood pressure (causing nausea, fatigue and dizziness)</li>
<li>Weight gain</li>
<li>Extreme fatigue (to the point where working and daily activities are limited)</li>
<li>Hernias</li>
<li>Malnutrition</li>
<li>Itching/skin rash</li>
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Obviously each of these things has its own set of side effects as well. Most dialysis patients are also on special diets which limit fluid intake, many fruits and vegetables and have other strict requirements. The worst part is that patients go through all that and its only doing about 20% of the job healthy kidneys would.<br />
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I recently saw this video...it does a great job of explaining the different types of dialysis and what like is like when you are on it:<br />
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Obviously this post doesn't speak for every different person's experience with dialysis. Like any other serious disease, treatments and responses to treatments differ from patient to patient. What I wanted to try to do however, is give others like me (who know nothing about this treatment of ESRD) a sense of what dialysis is all about. It's the "why" behind why there needs to be more living and deceased donors.<br />
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For more information about kidney disease in Canada, causes, treatments and more, visit <a href="http://kidney.ca/">kidney.ca</a>.Lauren Hhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09608128317570165038noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-240401421344567903.post-53931026893861619492012-05-18T12:41:00.001-06:002012-05-18T12:43:23.651-06:00Kidney Stories of Hope<br />
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I was on the fence about this topic and whether or not I should do a post about it. Mostly because I felt like I was tooting my own horn and like so many Canadians I was raised to beleive that's not something we should do.<br />
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A brief story I wrote for the Kidney Foundation of Canada, was selected as a winning entry in their national <a href="http://www.kidney.ca/storiesofhope">"Kidney Stories of Hope"</a> campaign. I was the Prairies winner. I remember reading last year's entries a couple of months before I donated, when everything with my testing was so uncertain and up in the air. They were inspiring and really helped me get a glimpse of what living with kidney disease is like.<br />
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I've said it before and I will say it again....people and their families that live with dialysis, renal diets, fatigue etc. that are a part of end stage renal disease are amazing, resilient people. I've come to know a lot of people on dialysis and I am humbled by their strength and positivity every day. So often donors are called heroes but in my mind, those fighting kidney disease are much more deserving of the title.<br />
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A few months ago I decided I would submit my story to the campaign, hoping it would encourage people to consider living donation. I really want people to understand that donating isn't scary and it is so much easier than people would think. I thought maybe a friend of family memembr of someone on dialysis who might be looking at the stories, might see mine and it might help them make the decision to step up and be tested as a potential donor. Never in a million years did I think my story would be selected as a winner.<br />
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I was away at a conference/mini Ontario vacation when I received an email from my local chapter of the Kidney Foundation, letting me know I had been selected. The stories were judged by a committee of volunteers and kidney foundation staff using the following criteria:<br />
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #666666;">Novelty: Is there something unique or different about your story? Have you found a new way to cope with kidney disease?</span><br />
<span style="background-color: white;"><span style="color: #666666;">Impact: Will your story help or change how other people with kidney problems work or live?<br />Human interest: Does your story inspire or motivate people in some way? Did someone inspire you—if so, how?</span></span><div>
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This week is <a href="http://windsorite.ca/2012/04/its-national-organ-and-tissue-awareness-week/">National Organ and Tissue Donation</a> Awareness week. It is the the States too - dare we say it is, then, international?<br />
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Why is this important? Simple. Thousands of people in North America die every year because they don't get organ transplants in time to save them. Hearts. Lungs. Livers. Pancreas. Kidneys. Unfortunately, unless you know someone personally who is waiting, most people don't give to much thought to organ donation, let alone talk about it.<br />
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I know people don't like talking about it sometimes. It is one of those topics, like money, politics and religion that people feel is a bit taboo or off-putting. Nobody wants to talk about death or think about "what ifs" that come with being in a horrible accident. Some people are afraid of it - they think if they are ever seriously injured, they will be allowed to die just so their organs can be harvested (so not true!). Or in the case of living donation, some people think they are at great risk if they donate, a risk not worth taking for another person - even a loved one (not true!).<br />
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Despite our fears and apprehensions, I think we love hearing the "good news" stories. Millions (yes millions) of Canadians collectively cheered earlier this month when <a href="http://www.alungstory.ca/">Helene Campbell</a>, Justin-Bieber/Ellen-loving-social-media-organ-donation-promoter-extraodinaire, received her new lungs. Last Christmas, the Ottawa Citizen ran a beautiful series of stories called <a href="http://www.ottawacitizen.com/news/topic.html?t=keyword&q=the+gift">"The Gift of Life" </a>which were read and shared by many. Despite the fact that often organ donation comes as a result of a heartbreaking loss for one family, we admire and revel in their choice to make the best of a tragic outcome and give life to others so desperate for a chance. When we hear these stories, we get it - we understand the need. So why then, do so many people not sign their donor cards? And why do even fewer talk to their families about their wishes (a critical component to organ donation as your family are ultimately the people who will give or refuse consent).<br />
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Please talk to your family and then take the steps to "register" to be a donor. For a list of province by province information on how to do that, click <a href="http://www.canadianliving.com/health/prevention/organ_donation_what_you_need_to_know.php">here</a>.<br />
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Through being an organ and tissue donor, in death you could change the lives of up to 80 people. That has to be worth the five minutes it will take to register and tell your family.<br />
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A year ago today, a fabulous lady named <a href="https://twitter.com/#!/TheFabulousOne">Amy</a>, donated her kidney to the mother of someone she knew from the social media community after hearing about her mother's need of a kidney on Twitter and Facebook.<br />
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Amy found out about Anu’s struggle from Kirti’s Facebook page in January 2011. Amy herself had suffered the loss of her father years ago (sound familiar?), and she offered to donate her kidney to Anu with no hesitation. "You have one mother; I have 2 kidneys.". </div>
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Amy and I belong to a lot of the same circles in social media land and a couple of groups that relate to living donation. In one of these forums yesterday, she was lamenting how angry she was that more people don't talk about living donation and she doesn't understand why. I don't really have the answer and that kind of bothers me.</div>
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Here is what I do know. We need to talk about it. It is going to make some people uncomfortable. There are going to be naysayers, saying that living donation is inherently dangerous, we were born with two kidneys for a reason and so forth. They will cite all the bad news stories they can find where the recipient or donor had a bad experience or worse, died (less than 0.03%!!). There are going to be people who think we, as donors, are just looking for attention from the media, our peers, our communities so that we can be told over an over what a selfless, wonderful thing we did (um, no). Believe me, I am equally uncomfortable with both of those camps of naysayers. <b>But we have to keep talking.</b></div>
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I recently was chatting with a surgeon (in a conversation, not patient kind of way). He told me that until very recently (five to six years ago) while he fully supported directed and deceased donation, he was against non-directed living donation. He said at the time, despite being generally very liberal in thinking, he couldn't understand why someone would do that for a stranger. He said that he assumed there must be ulterior motives or worse, some kind of potential mental health issue that would make people want to donate to a stranger. Then, he had the opportunity to meet some potential non-directed donors. He listened to their whys, they concerns and their beliefs. And he changed his mind on non-directed donors.</div>
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The majority of people don't even know living donation is an option or the fact that as long as you are deemed healthy, it is a fairly low risk procedure. Many people don't understand why someone would step up and give to a stranger or someone they barely know. Sadly, there are people who have close family members who have been on dialysis for years and they won't step forward to be tested for, because they don't know enough about how the process works and are afraid. And as my conversation with the doctor demonstrates, even health care professionals who understand the science/medicine behind transplants, don't fully understand the people side of living donation.<br />
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<b>We need to talk about it. </b>Talk about our whys and hows and highs and lows as donors or as people who know donors (I'm good with you sharing my story). Bottom line: living kidney donations save lives. Living kidney donations traditionally last longer than kidneys deceased donors. Oh and for the record? Dialysis is not a cure, making a kidney transplant a "nice to have". People on dialysis have a tough go of it on a daily basis and are some of the bravest, most resilient people as a result. I don't know how they do it.</div>
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SO many people need to hear the living donation message over and over at every level until they "get it", from friends, to family to co-workers to health care professionals. We often fear what we don't know or don't understand and it is our job, as donors (or our supporters), to help take some of that fear away by telling our stories. We shouldn't be afraid to talk about it, share our experiences and hopefully encourage others to become donors. Donating is a very personal choice to make. But that doesn't mean we can't talk about it.<br />
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Those are the words my Mom spoke to my Dad around 6 AM, 16 years ago today.<br />
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Six months we'd been bargaining with him, the cancer, his body and who knows what else. I am sure he was doing his fair share of bargaining as well. After being diagnosed a second time with oesophageal cancer in July of 1995, setting longevity related goals became common. We hoped and asked that he stick around 'till Thanksgiving, then it was my birthday followed by his birthday and so on. Christmas of course became the next big day we all were trying, hoping and maybe even praying he'd make it to. We were determined - trying to squeeze every last drop of time out of the situation we could. The first few goals he met with relative ease, in the realm of things. Just after Christmas though, he took a turn for the worse that he never really rallied back from. I think that was around the time my Mom set the Valentine's goal.<br />
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I think I've said it before but time is such a funny thing. It seems like we are always wanting to speed it up or slow it down. Rarely do we focus on just being in the moment, in the present.<br />
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There were times in the six or so week after Christmas that year I seemed stuck in a whirlwind of wanting things to slow down and at the same time wanting things to hurry along. Of course, I wanted my Dad around for as long as we could have him but as he got worse I'd sometimes wish that time would slip away a little faster. I'd hear him coughing at night and I'll admit sometimes I just wanted it to be over already. When you think you know how the story is going to end, sometimes to just can't wait to get to that last chapter or page. I still feel a bit guilty about not being more in the present during that time but I suppose I did the best I could.<br />
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That Valentine's Day with Dad was very different. After my Mom spoke to him that morning, he was unusually alert. He had been sleeping or groggy for weeks straight and suddenly not only was he awake, but he was his old self (albeit a slightly weaker version). Mid morning I went into our family room which had become a makeshift hospital room for him. I was so used to him sleeping all the time I walked passed him, turned on the TV and starting watching the morning movie on CityTV (<a href="http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0054698/">Breakfast at Tiffany's</a>). I settled in to watch the classic film when suddenly a strong voice I hadn't heard in ages asked me what I was watching.<br />
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When we were kids, it didn't matter what we were watching or how long we'd been watching it. When my Dad came home, we had to hand over the remote control and inevitably we'd start watching whatever he wanted to watch (MASH, WKRP or worse-Golf). He was the alpha dog when it came to the TV. So on that Valentine's Day, when he asked me what I was watching, in a voice so much like the father I remembered, I instinctively got up to hand him the remote. He waved me back. "No no. We can watch this. Breakfast at Tiffany's right?". And watch it we did. <br />
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My Dad's alert behaviour lasted much of the day with the exception of a few catnaps he took. He ate lunch, he chatted actively with my Mom, my brother and the nurse who came to check on him. He even signed Valentine's cards for my brother and I. He was so "with it". It was wonderfully confusing.<br />
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Late in the afternoon we needed a few medical supplies so my Mom sent me off to the specialty pharmacy to pick up the order. On my return, around 6pm, I pulled in the driveway with Mariah Carey and Boyz II Men belting out <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UXxRyNvTPr8">"One Sweet Day"</a>. I don't know if it was the song or what - but <b>I just knew</b>...before I even walked into the house.</div>
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Inside, my Mom was fretting over my Dad and chaos was in the air. He was struggling in some way to breathe? Swallow? Sit up? I wasn't sure. She was running around trying to help, and my brother was there looking stressed and not sure what to do. My Dad saw me walk up behind my Mom, stopped struggling and said very clearly and calmly: "Wait". He put hand up, as if to say "stop" to my Mom, who was poised to resume her fretting. He sat back. And then, a minute or so later, he was gone.<br />
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Valentine's Day is a day of reflection for me. While I of course think of my Dad throughout the year, today it always gets to me just a little bit more, even after all this time. As many of you know, my Dad's battle with cancer was one of the main <a href="http://tomakeachoice.blogspot.com/2010/12/christmas-and-family.html">catalysts</a> that would eventually lead to my being a living donor. I can't help but wonder what he'd think about this past year and the direction my life has taken. I know if he was still around my life would be very different and probably a very different Lauren would exist. While losing him when I did was so terrible, it allowed my life to go in such a different direction than it would have. I'm not a total subscriber to the "everything happens for a reason" philosophy but in this case I think there is something to it.<br />
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Yesterday <a href="http://www.cbc.ca/news/health/story/2012/02/13/organ-donation.html">this article</a> was published about how organ donation in Canada is plateauing while the need continues to grow. With over 3500 people waiting, in 2010, 229 people died waiting for organs. It reminded me again how important time is for people suffering a life threatening illness and in the case of those waiting for a transplant, time can make the difference between life and death.<br />
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In memory of my Dad, and in honour of all of our family and friends out there on Valentine's Day who might someday be hoping for more time themselves, make an appointment to <a href="http://www.blood.ca/">give blood</a> (book online with Canadian Blood Services!), sign your donor card, (in Ontario register at <a href="http://beadonor.ca/">beadonor.ca</a>) or <b>consider living donation</b>. At the very least give them all a hug (in real life or virtually) and let them know you love them.<br />
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What a difference a year makes.<br />
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This time last year, I had recently completed the first series of tests to see about becoming a kidney donor. In fact, just a week before Christmas I had had my <a href="http://tomakeachoice.blogspot.com/2010/12/another-test-down-one-to-go-i-think.html">four hour renal scan process</a>, the first "big" test to see how good my kidneys were.<br />
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I also still didn't really understand what I was doing. I know that might sound a bit odd but in hindsight, I really can see that I had no idea of the enormity of what I was trying to do. I also had no idea what impact it would have on my donor. On Christmas Eve last year, I wrote this post <a href="http://tomakeachoice.blogspot.com/2010/12/christmas-and-family.html">"Christmas and Family"</a>. I talked about my Dad when he was sick and my hopes that I could maybe give someone out there more time with their families. In response to the post I received a wonderful comment from <a href="http://www.smithfamilykidney.blogspot.com/">Nancy Smith</a>,-three of her six children have struggled with kidney disease and received transplants:<br />
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<dd class="comment-body" id="Blog1_cmt-7766642601086028943" style="background-color: white; font-size: 14px; line-height: 18px; margin-bottom: 0.5em; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 25px; margin-top: 0.5em;"><span style="color: #38761d; font-family: 'Trebuchet MS', sans-serif;"><b>Hi Lauren! I just came across your blog and wanted to write to encourage you in your desire to donate a kidney. Three of my 6 children have a rare pediatric kidney disease. We have been on what we call our kidney adventure for about 4 years now.<br /><br />All three of my children have had transplants because other people like you decided to share a kidney. I cannot write this without crying. We are soooo grateful for those precious gifts. These donors have truly given the gift of life to my children.<br /><br />My 17-year old son, Samuel, who is incompatible with 99.9% of the population, just had a miraculous 2nd transplant on November 12th. It was made possible by an altruistic non-directed donor (like you!) who started a chain of 32 surgeries - 16 donors and 16 recipients. A match for Samuel was found among this group and we traveled from Vermont to Texas to participate in the historic event. Samuel was so sick before the transplant and now, exactly 6 weeks later, is doing fantastic!<br /><br />This Christmas we will all be together. No hospital, no dialysis! It is wonderful!<br /><br />So if you ever doubt that what you are hoping to do will actually make a difference in someone's life, think about my children. You may be that kidney miracle for someone else!<br /><br />God bless you, Lauren!<br /><br />Nancy Smith</b></span><br />
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</dd>Her comment was a real turning point for me for several reasons.<br />
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Firstly, she was my first "stranger" to comment on my blog, all the way from Maine. Not only did she find my blog and read it, she took the time to share her story. It really made me understand the reach I could have in terms of educating people about living donation if I just kept talking about what I wanted to do. Secondly, by sharing her story and sharing her own family's <a href="http://www.smithfamilykidney.blogspot.com/">blog</a>, I began to have a hint of understanding of what impact I might have on my recipient, should I be allowed to donate. Her story was also something I could share with my friends and family so that they in turn could understand how kidney disease affects not just the patients but their families. In a way for many of my friends and family, Nancy and her children were the first "real people" we could put a face/name to that had kidney disease. Many more people like Nancy and her family would enter my life over the next year but she was the first and I'm really grateful for the impact she had on me-it certainly kept me going as I stumbled through the donation process.<br />
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Here we are a year later. I'm hopeful my recipient is doing well and that he or she is enjoying a different, much healthier Christmas with their family then perhaps last year's. So much of this past year is now a blur for me. While I'm healthy and physically feel the same with just the one kidney, there are so many things that have changed for me emotionally and intellectually. I'm a different person. I think I'm a better person. I am certainly more balanced and my priorities have really changed. I feel very lucky that I was healthy enough to be a donor and have this opportunity. I am glad I've been able to share it with others. I've met (virtually and in real life) some pretty inspiring people along the way from doctors to donors to recipients and their families. I've met people who are STILL waiting for a kidney who are the strongest, most resilient people you could ever imagine.<br />
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To all of these people, and to my wonderful friends and family-Merry Christmas-and thank you for everything.Lauren Hhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09608128317570165038noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-240401421344567903.post-40273423938213831642011-12-12T20:09:00.003-07:002011-12-12T21:29:00.378-07:00Paying It Forward<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgGn8c9pja-a-y0VOVfbJAeAPiV22-9liUuCPC7-_XauZJBvXXMsAmrtPkPhVojzoOSvKxWAJo6PksbsjLQ-4ESLbQ1oWTgrdaETp5lthulMTgft0YPCD1srUCx07ALnh4ewAb1wy0Ky_Ve/s1600/blog+people.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" height="150" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgGn8c9pja-a-y0VOVfbJAeAPiV22-9liUuCPC7-_XauZJBvXXMsAmrtPkPhVojzoOSvKxWAJo6PksbsjLQ-4ESLbQ1oWTgrdaETp5lthulMTgft0YPCD1srUCx07ALnh4ewAb1wy0Ky_Ve/s200/blog+people.jpg" width="200" /></a>A few months ago I had a young man (wow that makes me sound old and grandmotherly) email me about this blog. He was very to the point and asked me to keep writing it. He was in the process of being testing to become a non directed donor in the US (the middle part-we'll keep his location myseterious) and he was finding the blog amusing/helpful. We emailed back and forth several times over the last few months as he went through more testing, and dealt with all the big milestones donors face like telling our families, dealing with the uncertainty of testing and the nerve leading up to the surgery date.<br />
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In his case he went through a couple of steps I didn't-he met with a bioethicist. We both has to guess at what that was as it seemed to differ from the psychiatrist and social worker. By definition it is someone who deals with bioethics which is the "study of the ethical and moral implications of new biological discoveries and biomedical advances, as in the fields of genetic engineering and drug research". In the end though the bioethicist just asked a lot of the same questions as a social worker would and didn't bring up ethics at all really.<br />
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The donor friend also had one of his cross matches fail...he got "the call" that said that the person they thought he matched was not a good match. Outside of the "you aren't allowed to donate" this is the next worst call I think. I am very glad I never had such a call...I am sure it would be more than a bit frustrating and I know for me last spring it would have seemed devastating. Luckily for him though another match was found quickly and that cross-match passed with flying colours. And as of this morning, there is someone in the mid-US who has a kidney. My kidney friend is doing well. What an awesome Christmas gift he's given some one! I am sure he knows this but he did a really great thing today. I feel really proud of him which seems so odd given that he is otherwise a stranger to me. He was so calm and collected throughout the process it was unbelievable.<br />
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I feel so lucky to have been able to keep in touch with this donor along the way. Much like my friendship with Erin, it has been really rewarding for me to be able to help someone else through the ups and downs of the process. I really feel like I am paying it forward. In no way am I responsible for either of them choosing to donate but hopefully I made some part of the journey easier for them just as others made the journey easier for me.Lauren Hhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09608128317570165038noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-240401421344567903.post-17192279386775391942011-12-06T18:53:00.001-07:002011-12-06T19:26:59.990-07:00Six Months Later<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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Here we are...six months later (just about-tomorrow is the actual anniversary). To be completely honest it seems like a lifetime ago now-a big blur of tests, tests and more tests, a little drama and finally an operation.<br />
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Obviously by my lack of posts, you can make the assumption that no news is good news. I am healthy. My 3-4 month check up revealed that my pep talks to Righty have not gone unnoticed and she is functioning at a level doctors would consider good if I had two kidneys. My cholesterol is low, my BP is on average about 15PT lower than it was before and to top it off I am healthier, having lost (in a healthy way) about 20-25lbs. My nephrologist was impressed (yes he used that word)-he said I was ahead of the game. I feel good most of the time. When I do get extra tired, it does feel like I'm a little more tired than I would have been under the same circumstances before the surgery. But that is rare so I can't complain. Next check up at the one year mark.<br />
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I do wonder about Leftie and how he is doing, or more importantly how his new owner is doing. I hope with everything in my that the surgery was a success and Leftie and his new home are getting along okay. I've thought about writing an anonymous letter (which the program could send through on my behalf) but I'm still at a loss how to get past the opening line. Erin, who also recently donated her kidney in a non-directed donation (aka <a href="http://tomakeachoice.blogspot.com/2011/10/kidney-day.html">Jessi in earlier posts</a>) wrote a letter to her recipient that I may just borrow. With permission of course. She managed to get passed the opening line (and she is doing awesome in her recovery!).<br />
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I've also been approached to work on a collaborative, volunteer project to promote and provide resources about living donation. More to come on that one but it is something I am really excited about.<br />
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In other news, my e-friend Kerry Mortimer recently wrote about the power of social media, my donation and Erin's donation (which the Globe and Mail covered as it was #100 in the <a href="http://www.ccdt.ca/english/ldpe/what-is-ldpe.htm">LDPE</a> program!) on her sister's kidney website (check out the article <a href="http://jacquelinenemeth.com/2011/12/03/altruistic-kidney-donor-and-the-power-of-social-media/">here</a>). It is a good look at how small social media can make our world. I remember way back during the blog talks with my friends at Foothill's someone said "the kidney community is very small". The fact is...its a very large community but I will concede that social media makes that community much more accessible and easier to connect. There is also another great article on her site about another prospective donor and why he decided to get tested. I shared so many of his emotions as I was going through the process; I could really relate to <a href="http://jacquelinenemeth.com/2011/12/05/why-i-said-yes-a-heartfelt-letter-from-a-prospective-kidney-donor/">his story</a>.<br />
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I know I've been ignoring the blog a bit as of late. I'll have to give some thought as to what is newt for "To Make A Choice". Until then, here's to Leftie and Righty, and the last six months!<br />
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<br />Lauren Hhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09608128317570165038noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-240401421344567903.post-44096516822392445012011-10-26T20:07:00.003-06:002011-10-26T20:07:48.567-06:00Kidney Day<table cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="float: left; margin-right: 1em; text-align: left;"><tbody>
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Today was a pretty Kidneyriffic day.<br />
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My kidney friend, who I haven't met but have talked a ton with online, donated her kidney to a stranger. I think I've referred to her as Jessi in this blog so we'll call her that until when/if we opt to use her real name. The important thing though is that she is doing well after surgery and everything went as expected. I can't believe how nervous I was for her.<br />
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Yesterday I woke up with a million butterflies in my stomach. At first I couldn't figure out what I was anxious about. Work? No. I mean lately its been a circus-like environment but that wasnt it. The child? Charlie? No. I ran through the usual list of things to worry about. Everything was fine. Then I realized...I was worried/nervous/excited for Jessi. And I think a part of me was reliving the day before my surgery through her. All the thoughts, feelings, ideas and questions ran through my head...for the second time this year.<br />
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Today was no better. I was excited all over again. I was thinking about her and her recipient and how surreal things must be for them as they get suited up at the hospital and get ready for surgery. I wondered if Jessi was calm and collected or if her mind was going a mile a minute like mine had been the morning of my surgery. I wondered about her parents and boyfriend and how they felt leaving her at the hospital. I'd catch myself throughout the morning thinking about what was happening, if the surgery had started and how everyone was doing. Part of me thinks it might be a little weird pondering the fate of a stranger but at the same time I feel like I've been a part of so much of her journey thus far that this was just a natural next step. I am so glad that she made it through a-okay and that Canada has another non directed donor out there.<br />
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The next kidney moment happened today when I was poking around on Twitter (looking to see if there was a Jessi update). I noticed Alberta Health had posted a<a href="http://www.albertahealthservices.ca/5907.asp"> link to a story about a "transplant first" for Alberta</a>. I opened up the link and there was Dr S and another lady from Foothills smiling in a picture talking about a chain of transplants they did back in June, kicked off by yours truly (aka as the "anonymous donor" in the story). The article is great, albeit a bit after the fact and I know Dr S. is probably thrilled it was done. I think the spirit of the article is in the right place. I do take issue with how they kept mentioning the "anonymous" factor. Non-directed living donation CAN be anonymous but I'm not convinced it has to be, especially after the fact. The anonymity label also worries me a bit if it leads to irrational hospital procedures like the lockdown <a href="http://tomakeachoice.blogspot.com/2011/07/confidentiality-communication.html">"you do not exist as a patient"</a> policy Foothills put me through. Thankfully despite her non-directed status, Jessi is not going through the same thing where she is donating-they have her in with the other renal patients being cared for my nurse and doctors who are used to treating post donation and transplant patients. And she isn't a secret patient.<br />
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I hope the press release gets the living donor program more attention. It seems like the more the word gets out there, the more people step forward to be tested. I do think that the stories featured in and on the news of people waiting for kidneys or people who have opted to donate a kidney help more than hospital written stories. The difference is definitely the people factor. When you see pictures of people involved, you can relate to them. You can put yourself in the position of their families. And you want to help them. Or in the case of donors, you look at what they've done and think "I could do that-they are no different than me".<br />
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A couple of other Kidney related things happened as well today but I'll keep those under my hat for now. There are a lot of rules and guidelines and secrets in this world of kidney disease and kidney donation and I don't want to rock the boat for anyone awaiting transplantation or donation.Lauren Hhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09608128317570165038noreply@blogger.com